The Real Man
Regardless if you want to be the Leader of your relationship or you want to be the Leader of your life or you want to be the Leader of your own company, you face the exact same structures inside yourself. One part of you fearlessly wants to pursue the dream of your life and another part of you is holding you back in anxiety and fear. If the fearless part of you is the biggest, you most likely run into problems and hurt yoursel physical or financially and if fear is the dominating feeling you will never really succeed…
This is all about taking responsibility, but before any one can do this, it is absolutely necessary to know what to take responsibility for and how to do it! You have to KNOW and EXPERIENCE the inner parts of you that walks backwards or has stopped walking or is hobbling and thus makes it impossible for all of you to go FORWARD! You have to know what balance and harmony between the inner masculine and feminine parts really mean. If the inner man wants to become a millionaire and the inner woman doesn't care, you will never get there.
Conquer your Life
The deepest part of our brains have been programmed to fill the earth by survival of the fittest. If we haven't populated the earth by now, we will certainly have done this within a few years from now. And then some of us will be in danger. Mother Earth has its limitations. Our mental software is a highly advanced computer. However the software is millions of years old. It is outdated. We need an upgrade.
We have to reprogram our brains and we do this by inner work and by training. The relationship with women will reflect our relationship with the deepest purpose of Man Being – Our Mission. The reason we as men are here. We have to change strategy.
The balance between the inner masculine and the inner feminine makes us leaders and gives us a greater feeling of responsibility. Not only a feeling of responsibility for ourselves and our nearest family. Not only for our friends and local community. Not only for our country. But a global or even universal feeling of responsibility for this planet as she IS the very foundation for our survival.
We create the world as we are created. Divided. Inner man and inner woman working together in perfect harmony results in wholeness. And from there we create relationships and governments which are complete and in harmony as the parts walk hand in hand and work in the same direction.
This is the conquest. The conquest of life. The conquering of The Inner Man and The Inner Woman. The conquer of The Inner Leader. The conquer of balance, wisdom and love.
We can heal the world. We have to!
You might ask…
Before we can heal the world we have to heal ourselves. In my world there are three types of men:
1. The feminine, soft and kind guy with no or little power.
2. The masculine guy with no or little understanding of people too different from himself
3. The balanced guy who can be a Man running a million dollar company while he happily changes diapers.
Number 3 is what number 1 and 2 try to achieve. Balance is a keyword here.
The feminine guy does not achieve his goals – if he has any! He hasn't got the amount of power that the masculine guy has. There is ONE situation where the core essence of this mans problems surface. It is when he has to make a BIG decision. If he goes to a bar or a club and spots a super hot babe it shows. One part of him wants to go talk to the woman. Another part of him comes up with 10 reasons not to do it. He needs to focus first at his outer game.
The masculine guy has no problems in getting women but he will experience problems in understanding them. Most probably he has problems understanding most people who are too different from himself. This man has a lot of ambition and even though he acts like a leader, he has no real leadership skills. He can't even lead his relationship with a woman. He has to focus on his inner game first.
I simply can't stress enough that this balance is essential. If you get this you will not go out in the world as guy number 2 and get a leader job because you want to prove something. You don't need unconsciously to say: Look at me dad, see what I can do! Or – you won't go out in the world as guy number 1 secretly wanting a leader job without being able to get it or even trying to avoid it because you are afraid of failure.
You will be the natural, confident leader the world needs.